When we feel safe, our creativity opens like a wildflower—unplanned, luminous, impossible to command. Imagine telling a story or showing a photo or piece of art to someone who loves you. Your words and vision tumble out, curious and brave, full of color and small, surprising truths. The art grows wings. Now imagine telling or…
Do Not forget in Darkness What You Found in the Light
Not a week. Not a month.One single day. Multiple events are happening at such a rapid pace it’s easy to get overwhelmed and ignore because it’s easier for your brain to justify the unspeakability that is happening in our country right now. And I have been watching this daily, for months now. Watching the same…
Choosing Rest in a Time That Asks for More
As the new year arrives, there’s often a quiet pressure to reset, improve, and push forward. New intentions, new goals, new energy. But if there’s one lesson worth carrying into this season—and one Dr. Rangan Chatterjee returns to often—it’s that lasting change rarely comes from doing more. It comes from creating space for rest. Life…
What We’re Meant to Hold
As we move through this Yuletide season, I’ve been thinking a lot about gifts. Not just the ones wrapped in paper, but the ones that arrive quietly in our lives. Opportunities, love, healing, moments of joy. And how often, when something good finally reaches us, our first instinct is to wonder whether we truly deserve…
Whimsy, Weariness and Whatever the Universe was Doing This Year
This year’s collage looks a bit like the universe shuffled my favorite play-list—travel, mountains, horses, pastries, auroras, bikes, and one very opinionated dog. I didn’t realize how lucky I’ve been until I started scrolling back through all the pics this year and thought, “Huh…this actually was a pretty good year”—even if my hair still hasn’t…
The Illusion of Sameness: What Politics and Love Get Wrong About Safety
We live in an age of reflex — a collective startle response.Our perception of humanity has split down the middle: us and them, right and wrong, awake and asleep. We scroll, we brace, we choose sides. It’s easier to belong to a camp than to sit in the tension of complexity. But the nervous system…
Aurora Sessions for a Wandering Heart
Last night, standing in my own backyard, I watched one of the largest auroral storms on record spill across the sky—curtains of color folding and unfolding like the world briefly remembered its own magic. It wasn’t the first time I’ve seen the northern lights; I’ve chased them in other corners of the world, letting their…
Emotional Road Rage and Other Holiday Traffic
It’s funny how fleeting peace can be. One minute you’re leaving pilates feeling like a Zen goddess, all breath and light and “nothing can shake me,” and the next, someone cuts you off in traffic and suddenly you’re auditioning for Fast and the Furious: Emotional Meltdown. It’s easy to beat yourself up in those moments….
The Tender Weight of Strength
I know I’m strong—and I’m grateful for that strength—but there are days when I simply wish for a moment of ease. Sometimes strength feels like both a blessing and a responsibility, a quiet understanding that I’ll show up and carry what needs carrying. And while I’m thankful for the resilience I’ve built, there are moments…
Borrowed Belief
We need someone who believes in us—who can see the light when we’ve forgotten where we shine. There are seasons when the weight of things feels too much, when dreams seem too far away, and self-belief slips quietly out the back door. In those moments, a voice saying “I got you” can feel like sunlight…