Change is the stuff of life. But transitioning well is the art of life. – Prior

Life transitions are usually life changing events that cause us to re-examine our present sense of being.  They can be predictable – such as children leaving home or marriage but they can often be unpredictable – such as an accident, divorce or death.  Many people will experience most life transitions during mid-life, when deciding to change careers or job focus or realize they have to face themselves when marriage transitions. Any significant loss makes most people feel fearful and anxious. Since your future may now be filled with questions, it is normal to feel afraid. We live in a culture that has taught us to be very uncomfortable with uncertainty, so we often become anxious when our lives are disrupted, unless you know yourself deeply.

This has never been more evident than in 2020. People have been forced to face decisions or change they never anticipated. On the positive side, these transitions also give us a chance to learn about our strengths and to explore what we really want out of life and where we want to be and with who. This time of reflection can result in a sense of renewal, stability, and a new equilibrium and believe it or not, peace.

I promised Loki we wouldn’t be doing this moving thing again for awhile. 4 moves in 4 years. I’m sorry buddy, but it’s time to go home. What is ‘awhile’ in dog time anyway? An hour, a day, a year? Whatever it is, I can see it waring on him. Ibis just cares if the frisbee is coming with us. Our time of service is complete in this chapter and in its ending, a transition of self. We were only supposed to be in Wisconsin for 2 years, it has now been 4. It wasn’t until this year that I was able to truly serve myself and develop the vision board in my head after my own unpredictable transition 4 years ago. Many lessons learned along the way, but also great growth of spirit and knowing, and friendships, and love that have healed my soul.

We head back to Colorado in 2 weeks and leave behind an 40s idyllic cottage for a 70s rambler 1/2 the size to focus on that which moves the spirit, not the vacuum. Sun, mountains, and a career where I can use the gifts I’ve collected. Sunday dinners will be reinstated and my door will always be open.

Thank you for being part of my journey.